A shift in perspective that will change your relationships

“People are lonely because they build walls instead of bridges.”
Joseph F Newton

In recent months I made a friend that makes me a little scared (no, he isn’t ugly!!). Scared because I can’t apply any protection technique with him, is a bit ridiculous (to adult eyes) and even childlike the way I am innocent and real with him….


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Because of this, I, instead of being happy, let my mind make things difficult and  several times I thought that I should stop talking with him or just don’t go to meet him.


Then I opened the book “A Course in Miracles” in a random page and I saw this:


“Those who are to meet will meet, because together they have the potential for a holy  relationship”


Those words brought a big shift in my perspective and a huge sense of trust in my heart.

The people you meet are not there by chance, all of them are part of an organized scenario contributing to your development, as well as their evolution.


When special people come into your life let go of fears and judgments based on your past experiences.


Otherwise you will block the energy that is supposed to flow and you won’t see the miracle. You need to distinguish when you are being careful or when you are just being resentful.


Ask the Divine for a really clear guidance, ask for an specific sign, If the answer you receive is that you have to show up for, do not let your mind screw it up, just show up.




So, what’s the problem of being childlike anyway? Is not that the most clear sign that I am dealing with a pure heart?


We don’t have to be like little children to enter the Kingdom of Heaven?


Think about it, if there is any meeting you are preventing to flow because you are trying too hard to protect yourself, shift your perspective from fear to love and see what happens.

Nothing happens by chance, be aware and grateful for each moment and each person.


This one HERE is from Oprah’s mag, about EMOTIONAL SLUTS.
Before you open up to someone, realize it is not so, use your intuition always. I reported a very special case of a very special person about a very specific situation in my life in this post (I made the long-story-short, I had many others signs), but we can be victims of bad people too. So we should always ask for a sign and wait.
This one HERE by me, about how you can be vulnerable without being naive, must read!!!!
… and this one HERE about how to know when it’s time to move on! Of course, if you want to receive special people in your life you also have to create the space for it. :) (yes, you CREATE the space!)
May the force be with you

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Once formed and working as a lawyer, her life changed when she began to practice yoga and meditation. She realized that any change in the world begins in the human heart.

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